From Kutara : Influencing lives

One question we often ponder over at different stages in our lives is “what is my purpose”. The Purpose driven life by Rick Warren has sold over a million copies and many years from now it would still be on the shelves of bookstores. Experts say, in finding your purpose look out for things you hate and seek to change. A few friends and I haven’t fully discovered our entire purpose but we all share one thing in common, putting a smile on someone’s face and giving them a sense of belonging. We are the Friends of Kutara IDP camp and we spent some time with them a few months back.

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Amazing team


If you are a frequent reader on the blog you may have read our first visit to the camp. You can always read it up here. Something Adamu – the camp coordinator said that still resonates with me “We were displaced, but placed by God here”. Most of them are from Borno and Adamawa states who were affected by the Boko Haram insurgency in the North-East of Nigeria. They are currently 55 men, 99 women, 136 youths and 208 children.

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We started planning for our second visit and just like the first one, God smiled down on us through people. A few lines on a whatsapp group gave us two amazing Doctors – Babarinde and Mariam who happen to be classmates and hadn’t met since graduation. A friend donated his truck, two others sent in money to contribute to hiring a bus, another person sent in money to buy sanitary towel. People sent bags of clothes, books, shoes even damask gele. Not to talk of Marie Stopes International who sent three staff with their equipment to facilitate talks on family planning and Halima became our Hausa translator during the talks.

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Halima and Marie Stopes Staff during the family planning talks
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Women waiting to be examined

The greatest gift you can ever receive is the gift of human beings and we sure received such gifts. Chioma was generous enough to capture the moments with her camera. Babarinde and Mariam attended to 43 patients mostly women (hopefully the next visit we would attend to more people including men and children). With instructions from our Doctors Efe, Halima, Chinwe and Akachi became pseudo nurses by dispensing drugs to the patients. The men Ebuka, Emeka, Tochi and Anthony were not left out. They spent time with some of the men and some of us visited their homes.

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Our amazing Doctors – Mariam and Babarinde
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I didn’t know a medical examination was filled with so much happiness…lol
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Halima and Akachi: pseudo Nurses
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From L-R Efe, Halima, Akachi, Chinwe, Emeka and our lovely Photographer Chioma who finally gets captured
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Chinwe in her element…babies make her world go round. They sure shared a moment

One thing we all agreed on was the transparency in the way they shared the relief materials. We saw how they shared everything into 79 parts to cover the number of families they had in the camp and I mean everything. They all took turns to pick up their items by sending a representative when the family name was called.

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Sharing of the relief materials according to the number of families
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A family representative collects their share of rice
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Ebuka, Emeka, Anthony, Akachi and some children

We are planning another visit in a few weeks from now and would be extending our hands to you to be a part of this amazing trip. So while we hope they can go back to their previous communities and resume their normal lives we can do a few things to improve their present condition. These are the current needs we would be meeting

  • Clothes (Men, Women, Youths, Children and Babies)
  • Shoes
  • Food items (Rice, Noodles, Tomato Puree, Beverages etc)
  • Toiletries ( Bathing soap, Washing powder, Sanitary Towel)
  • 4×4 Trucks
  • Buses
  • Medical Professionals (Doctors, Pharmacists, Dentists, Medical Lab Scientists)
  • Drugs
  • School Materials (Note books, Text books, Pencils)
  • Transferable skills (Soap making etc)
  • Renovation of their make-shift class-room block
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The make shift black-board. They are raising distinguished students with such topics
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Babarinde and I having a refresher course on Civic Education. You are never too old to learn
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Efe addressing the camp on behalf of the team

Sometimes I wish I had the power to end the suffering in the world but sadly I can’t but I believe in the power of changing one life. We are doing just that and you can be part of it. You can reach us through the comment section or send an email to

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It was a good visit, the various facial expressions prove it *winkwink*
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Of course i had to dance.
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Boss lady. Events Planner extraordinaire
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Yes young man, we love you.

Loads of Love

Friends of Kutara

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